> > Not that it matters much as far as the friendship goes as I doubt I'll ever see him again. He's LDS and leaving on his "mission" in less than a month. I've already decided that I cannot remain true to my own beliefs and write to him, thus implicitly condoning his actions.
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> I predict that you'll eventually regret that decision

I don't know if you'll regret it, but it does seem like a bad reason not to write him. From what you said he already knows that you don't agree with his religious choices. If you were really worried about him thinking that you're condoning his actions you could just state that you're not in the letters.

fam"In other words you might not regret not writing.. but you might regret your reason. "ous