> The question is, how guilty shoud I feel that I didn't?

Not at all. When we're feeling down we often look to blame others for how we feel. If your friend made herself hard to get in touch with, and gave you no indication that she needed you, then you acted as any reasonable human being would act.

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> winter"Not the kind of question I often need to ask"mute

Bal"Has had it up to here with moody ex-friends"anthalus