> Not at all. When we're feeling down we often look to blame others for how we feel. If your friend made herself hard to get in touch with, and gave you no indication that she needed you, then you acted as any reasonable human being would act.

> Bal"Has had it up to here with moody ex-friends"anthalus

Well, it's a bit more complex than that. And I don't know if I can expect a meaningful answer when there's so much about the situation that I don't want to post on a public forum. But the fact that she was hiding should have been a clue that she needed help.

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