> Darien, even though my initial reaction to your angst was to try and be a little funny, I have been wondering how things were going for you. And even though you clearly haven't asked for advice, I'm giving you my take, which includes a little.

An excellent take it was, too. I was trying to formulate a way to say much the same things, but you beat me to it, and with more understanding of the situation. I was also going to recommend being the first to wave the olive branch, despite the blow to one's pride that entails. (I hate that.)