> > > Darien, even though my initial reaction to your angst was to try and be a little funny, I have been wondering how things were going for you. And even though you clearly haven't asked for advice, I'm giving you my take, which includes a little.
> >
> > An excellent take it was, too. I was trying to formulate a way to say much the same things, but you beat me to it, and with more understanding of the situation. I was also going to recommend being the first to wave the olive branch, despite the blow to one's pride that entails. (I hate that.)
>
> I know, me too -- I have a man-sized ego/sense of pride. But it always feels so much better, later, to be able to know I had a
> proactive part in speeding the reconciliation, or to say to myself, "I did the best I could to straighten
> things out; if it didn't work, I'm not the one who didn't try." What's the phrase? That first
> step's a doozy.
>
> And thank you for your kind words. Being on the same track as you is confirmation it
> was the right one.

Thank you, both of you... I appreciate it very much. So you know, I have taken the first step. And got nowhere. So now I've taken the last step - a Darienic last gasp at salvaging the situation. I have yet to see how she reacts to that.