> Now this has made me wonder: What else should be on that list? I leave this as an open question to the readers of this Forum. You know, if you feel like telling me how to choose my mate.

To be serious, I've read that everyone should have a top ten list. Ten things that you must have in a mate and ten things you can't have. Only ten, because that forces you to be specific - and you should be very specific with each on the list. Pray a lot about it, and once you have your list, don't compromise; even if someone seems perfect in almost every regard but doesn't match up with just one of those things on the list, she isn't for you.


> > Ga"yn"halyn
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> Don "I don't understand that in-name quote at all" Monkey

First post with the new name. ia --> yn.