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Re: down and out
Posted By: Chris, on host 198.70.210.158
Date: Wednesday, September 22, 1999, at 21:52:11
In Reply To: down and out posted by Howard on Sunday, September 19, 1999, at 16:06:05:

> What do you do when you're down and out? If you don't have a method of cheering yourself up, you're going to spend a lot of time down in the dumps. Some people sing, some go fishing, some take a walk, some work out on a punching bag. Different things work for different people. I go buzzing up and down the block on a motor scooter. It works better in good weather. Try it sometime. What? You don't! I thought everybody had a motorscooter. Well, it works for me.
> Howard

Motorscooter? OK, I know you've mentioned it a few times, but I never really... is it, like, a motorcycle?

OK, when I'm down in the dumps, so to speak [our dump isn't so bad], I usually pray. I know, it sounds like the typical Sunday-School packaged answer, but it works. I totally unload, talking about why I'm depressed [if I know] and anything I might tell to a therapist for a few zillion dollars an hour. I actually had a bit of a problem with depression [not clinical, I don't think, but I was headed there... if I didn't head somewhere else first] before I was saved.

Then, after I'm feeling a bit better, I withdraw into my music. If my violin wasn't the cause of the blue funk [as it often is, sigh] it's a good band-aid. There's always piano, but it just makes it worse if my fiddle was the cause [looong explanation]. So, if playing isn't an option, and I don't feel like singing, I'll curl up with some good music and maybe a book or a peice of writing, either outside with hot milk/chocolate/cider or in bed with a cold water bottle. Ther's no way I can't feel better like that.

Albert Schweitzer said "There are two refuges from the miseries of life: Music and cats" If he'd added God and books, he'd be right on the money. He's still closer than many.

Chr"I can tie this into, like, three ongoing conversations here. Cool"is

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