> Two days ago I was at UCLA doing volunteer work at the medical center, when, during a short break, I saw Kevin Bacon. He was wearing dark glasses and kept his head low, I'm guessing he didn't want to attract attention. He browsed some rings, went in to the student store, and came out with some snacks. I told my cousin this, and she immediately said, "Did you talk to him?!" "did you get his autograph?" I was rather taken aback. My first impulse when I saw him in the hospital was to think he perhaps had someone close to him who was ill. I told my cousin that, and to show some more respect. But this was easy for me to say because although I've enjoyed a few of his movies (Tremor anyone?), Kevin Bacon just doesn't get my juices flowin'.Celebrities are sighted often at UCLA, my mom alone has gotten
> 1. An autograph from Tiger Woods
> 2. An autograph from Andre Agassi, plus a Nike duffel bag (what a nice guy)
> 3. Autographed picture from Jacklyn Smith
> 4. An autographed picture WITH Sly Stallone
> and some more I can't remember. But keep in mind she was taking care of their friends and relatives and they wer eonly too happy to show her their appreciation.
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> But this had me thinking. What if I had seen an actor/actress I greatly admire. Like the brilliant, classy and incredibly gorgeous Gillian Anderson. I've admired her forever, for her talents, wit, and beauty. Would I be in the wrong to approach her in such a setting? Does anyone have any insight as to what the rules are?
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> By-"IhopeIdon'tseeGillianAndersoninasettinglikethisincaseIcan'tapproachhercuzthatwouldsuck"-ron

My thinking on this subject is that you should give them space. If they want to talk to you, you'll know. I once flew across the continent with Kathy Crosby sitting across the aisle and never exchanged a word with her. Another time in an airport I ran across Alan Hale, Jr. He was dressed in the Aloha shirt and cap that he always wore as the Skipper on TV. I think that was a signal that he wanted to be recognized. I didn't stop for an autograph, because he was surrounded.
If I got on an elevator with Richard Petty, I might not speak, but if he was wearing the famous hat, I would probably say something like:
"Good morning, Richard. Or "Tell John to try to lead that last lap." But I wouldn't delay him or anything like that. Celebs are people, too. They are often on tight schedules. I try to let them be.
Howard