> I've tried to think of a good way to start this post, but there isn't one. Maybe I shouldn't be saying it at all yet, but I figure the sooner I get this out of the way, the sooner I can stop worrying about how or when to tell people. It looks like my 11-year de facto marriage is over. I will possibly have more to say about this in a few more weeks or months, or however long it takes me to be capable of rational thought again, but that's the summarised version.
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> For goodness sake don't start asking for details or giving advice, because right now I'm still concentrating on things like remembering to eat and sleep at least once a week, and wondering where more than a third of my life just went.

No advice, just wishing God to give you strength. I'm so sorry to hear this.

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