> Is this a clear sign to me it's too much
> trouble to support and be with me? Should I
> just get over it? HELP????? What do you
> think?

What do I think? I think your boyfriend /
husband / fiance / whatever he is to you needs
a major atitude adjustment.

My wife and I live very close to my parents (in
fact, at the moment, we live *with* them, but
that's another story). Her family lives nearly
1,000 miles away. Like you, she sees and
interacts with my family on a daily basis. Our
situation is almost exactly like yours.

If I acted the way your guy did when it was time
for one of our rare trips to visit her family, we'd
have a serious problem in our relationship. As
you do. If you just "put up with it," you're either
going to have to continue taking this crap from
him for the rest of your life, or you're going to
bottle up your emotions until they explode.
Neither situation is healthy. If I were you, I
wouldn't put up with it. You and he need to
have a serious talk.

Grishny