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Re: Another Romance question
Posted By: Kiki, on host 64.20.3.65
Date: Monday, June 11, 2001, at 20:39:54
In Reply To: Another Romance question posted by Shandar on Monday, June 11, 2001, at 19:53:51:

>Having gone through a pretty tough break-up in the past 2 or 3 months, I am anxious to get back into dating. As a matter of fact, I have several girls in mind that I would like to go out with.

I think you're asking the wrong question. As a female, if a guy who had gone through a tough breakup in the past 2 or 3 months asked me out, I would think "Uhoh, rebound..." No female wants to be asked out because you need romantic affirmation. or because you feel you should be dating. I especially don't want to be asked out by a guy who is considering *several* females. Forget about the romantic relationship - get to know them, figure out which you truly *are* interested in, get to be friends with all of them. Wait to date until you're far enough removed from the past relationship that your motives for a new relationship truly are healthy, both for you and the girl.

Kiki

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