> > Hi folks!
> (snip)
> > And i think i will do a lot of thinking the next months. I mean, i proposed to her a 2 weeks ago, but that was all pretty automatically, i had plans for that already since last year (i even mentionned it here), and so it was pretty normal, but afterwards i started to think about it, it's a pretty big step, not that i had doubts, but i never thought about it as being "a big step"; i found it all pretty normal: we were engaged, i would propose to her, and then we get married, and live the rest of our lifes together ... big deal!
> >
> > But it's only after i proposed to her that i realized the impact of my proposal, and now i'm sure, i'm going for it! (or rather... i'm going for her!)
> >
> > Anyway, sorry, to bother you with all this, but i felt like this this morning, and wanted to share my feelings.
> >
> >
> > Jom"hmm-maybe-i-wrote-too-much"meke
>
> I'd say that's pretty darn normal. It's one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make, it's only natural to have some doubts right after you've made the decision. But the fact that you were sure of yourself going into it (the proposal) would indicate to me that it was the right choice.
> Your whole life is about to change, and you're starting to realize it. As the date approaches and you're both stressed out about the wedding plans and so forth, you both may experience some *serious* doubts. If that happens, you need to remember that that's also natural and it's just the overwhelming stress of the whole thing. They will disappear after the blessed event, though.
>
> Get ready to share every moment, and create an infinite number of memories.
>
> Tra "we celebrate 10 years next month" nio

Thanks for the support

and congrats with the 10 years....

Well, here in Belgium (in reply to other replies), it's the tradition that both the families take care of the preparations (i guess a wedding (in general, not only the preparations) in the US is a little bit different from here, but there are certain things i wanna do a-traditional), but most of the time the couple themselves do it (of course with the support from the *experienced* old folks), and that's the way i like it, no interferring by other people, we're gonna do it OUR way, and since last year we already had some ideas (you know, when seeing something we said "o, whenever we're gonna marry we're gonna do it this way or that way ...), and now we can concretely start to work them out.

Tonight we have another visit of two places and by the end of May we should be able to decide where and when we're gonna do it, but then it only begins: then the *discussion and preparation of the colours* starts; the place where we shall live, the church-books, the cars, the clothes, the people we invite, where they should sit, what ... , where .... *SIGH*

Jom"hmmm, next year? That's still soooooo long away!"meke