> Hi folks!
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> And i think i will do a lot of thinking the next months. I mean, i proposed to her a 2 weeks ago, but that was all pretty automatically, i had plans for that already since last year (i even mentionned it here), and so it was pretty normal, but afterwards i started to think about it, it's a pretty big step, not that i had doubts, but i never thought about it as being "a big step"; i found it all pretty normal: we were engaged, i would propose to her, and then we get married, and live the rest of our lifes together ... big deal!
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> But it's only after i proposed to her that i realized the impact of my proposal, and now i'm sure, i'm going for it! (or rather... i'm going for her!)
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> Anyway, sorry, to bother you with all this, but i felt like this this morning, and wanted to share my feelings.
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> Jom"hmm-maybe-i-wrote-too-much"meke

I'd say that's pretty darn normal. It's one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make, it's only natural to have some doubts right after you've made the decision. But the fact that you were sure of yourself going into it (the proposal) would indicate to me that it was the right choice.
Your whole life is about to change, and you're starting to realize it. As the date approaches and you're both stressed out about the wedding plans and so forth, you both may experience some *serious* doubts. If that happens, you need to remember that that's also natural and it's just the overwhelming stress of the whole thing. They will disappear after the blessed event, though.

Get ready to share every moment, and create an infinite number of memories.

Tra "we celebrate 10 years next month" nio