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Re: Least favorite sterotypes
Posted By: Howard, on host 68.155.17.146
Date: Tuesday, February 28, 2006, at 09:19:34
In Reply To: Re: Least favorite sterotypes posted by Henry on Tuesday, February 28, 2006, at 01:44:35:

> Not really a stereotype, but people tend to assume I speak some Asian language because I happen to be Asian. (My parents are Chinese, but I was born in Canada.)
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> Interestingly, it annoys me more when the Asians make the assumption, because it's often in the context of them trying to talk to me about something and me just looking dumb. Once time I mistook a market employee for a food kiosk server (long story) and asked her for a beverage from the fridge behind her. She kind of snapped back at me in Chinese, and since I can't understand Chinese, I just stood there confused. Then another lady nearby snaps out a translation, indicating that I should go get the drink myself. Then they proceed to talk to each other in Chinese, clearly about me, while I'm standing right there. To this day, I want to punch them.

It seems rude to speak in a different language if the speakers also speak the language of someone who is present. It's kind of like speaking softly in the presence of a person who doesn't hear very well.
Howard

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