> > > 4) Big Decisions and Problems. not even going to go into my family (but it wouldn't be what you think, >probably... i get along well with my parents). Trying to figure out what to do about the guy i like (just to get a >few more opinions, should i or should i not invite him to my winter formal?). A lot of other stuff.
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> > My advice is, absolutely yes. The only really meaningful relationship I ever got into in high school began with the girl asking me out. In this case, I think it can only be a good thing to get your feelings out in the open (assuming he's not, you know, already going out with somebody else or something.)
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> no, he's not.... and that's basically my feeling, we ARE really good friends..... but one of his friends said that it really could make things awkward, which is a valid point.... so i'm not sure anymore. *sigh*

I don't know about that... when I told my best friend that I loved her, it actually cleared up a whole lot of awkwardness. And this was six months or so before she decided that she loved me, too. So I don't how much credence to lend to the "awkwardness" argument.