Re: Can you go on dates without dating?
commie_bat, on host 207.35.236.194
Monday, January 17, 2005, at 11:04:04
Can you go on dates without dating? posted by OneCoolCat on Sunday, January 16, 2005, at 01:52:03:
> I really don't see the point. There really doesn't seem to be anything worthwhile you get from a dating relationship that you shouldn't be getting from God (Unconditional affection, etc) or from your spouse (Romance, physical, etc) >
I guess that depends on what you consider "worthwhile", but certainly if you're dating and living apart you get some of the benefits of having a spouse while retaining the benefits (if you like that sort of thing) of living alone. It's also easier to break off a dating relationship than a marriage if it doesn't work out, but of course most people don't go into a relationship expecting it not to work.
But most importantly, a whole lot of people who date either don't have spouses or don't have gods. I didn't have either when I was dating mrs_bat. So I guess dating is a viable lifestyle choice for those people.
^v^:)^v^ F"and don't even get me started on the 'quirkyalone' lifestyle"B
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