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> I've never been in a fight... And if I ever was I would never be able to hit first, or in the face... I would be to afraid to brake something or other... I could just give em a nice tap on the shoulder so they couldn't move their arm for a while, i wouldn't feel bad doing that....
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> I wouldn't be a very good fighter, i'm to careful about controling my strength... I'm always breaking things when I don't... Like punching bags...
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I'm the same way. I'm kinda strong for a girl, and if I get mad enough, I will hit things harder than I should. I've never hit any people, I promise, but I have hit my fair share of inatimate things. A couple of years ago, in a fit of rage I broke my cd player. I can't remember what I was mad at but I was really mad. Anyway, I have learned not to hit things unless they are meant to be hit. One thing that helps me is to just scream. It sounds basic, but it really helps lessen my stress. Of course, you can't do this just anywhere. Usually it's in the car, or into a pillow when no one is home. Of course going out and playing a good game of basketball helps too. :)

fam 'there's not much point to this post, just needed to say something for a change' ous