> The one thing I do like about ICQ is the ability to control people from adding you to their contact list and I hope AIM offers that one soon (in addition to being able to transfer files).

Hmm, in the version of AIM that I have, there's a Send file option, but I have only tried it with people who have a less recent version, and thus it wouldn't work. Also, there's a function that only lets people contact you if they're on your list.