>I would like to ask all of you what do you think >is the most HEALTHY and attractive looking >size/weight for a woman ? What do you think is >too big and in turn too small?

Well, HEALTHY is a difficult one to pin down - even if those who eat a nutritious, balanced diet, get plenty of exercise (which is much better for you than a starvation diet) and all that will ultimately attain a shape determined by ther genetic makeup. I know a lass who is one of the fittest women I've ever met, but the only size ten shes ever going to buy is a shoe (her quote, BTW). Some of the least healthy women I've seen have been stick thin (benefits of a distinctly Californian lifestyle, if you get my meaning).

Mind you, this should not put you off of a good diet and plenty of exercise. You'll feel better for it (better than a temporary chocolate fix, anyway), will have loads of energy, and probably live longer.

Remember, always check your progress with a measuring tape, not scales, as muscle will weigh more than fat.

As for attractive, well, thats a tricky one too, although I recall a book where the monologue pointed out that kissing someone the same height as you was a good thing, as there is a certain intimacy about a kiss on the level.
And I'd tend to agree (although it did annoy my girlfriend at the time - she though that she was 6'1" and not 5'11"!)

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