> Sometimes it's hard to know whether to post a reply to something on the forum. When you take things personally, it can lead to irrational and poorly thought out responses which don't do your viewpoint justice. Because I'm sure you're all fascinated to know how I make this decision, the following process is helpful.
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> 1) I ask myself, am I replying to this post to address the issues raised, or merely to blow off steam at how much this idiot makes me feel like he's drilled a hole in my head and poured in a bucket of rats?
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> 2) If the answer is the latter, I consciously relax. I re-read the person's post, thinking more of the points he is making than the way he is making them. Then, I say "What the heck" and post a reply anyway, because I hate that person and he should go away and die.
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> 3) But I *also* try to address the issues raised, because then I can feel morally justified about hating the person and wanting him to die, because, hey! I wrote a serious post addressing issues which were raised!
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> 4) I go about my business, secure in the knowledge that I have made yet another serious, well-considered and objective forum post.
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> Brunnen-"like this one, in fact"G

Ms. _G: This is exactly the kind of post which made me, back when I first assumed you were, then denied you could be anything but, a boy, say things like I'd marry you no matter which gender you turned out to be. I'd give up all things gender based to be married to someone who is as freaking funny, AND STILL *RIGHT* all the time!!, as you.

Mou"but still holding out for a boy -- on my own continent"sie