> Shan-[sigh]-dar

I don't have much of anything to add to what Sam said--he hit all the high points. I just wanted to say that I am glad to see that you are making the decisions you are, and I am honored that you would come forth and discuss your situation so openly on this Forum--that shows a great deal of character, as does the way you handled the situation with regards to telling all the other people who are important to you.

I'll be praying for you, and remember that whenever you need one more person to talk to, we will be here. :-)

Don Monkey