> Getting back to the original subject, though, I am curious: Does anyone else here have the regular experience of having their age grossly mistaken? If so, does it bother you, and if so, how do you deal with it?
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People always think I'm older than I am. This has been the case since I hit puberty, which I went through like a slingshot. I've never been short in stature, and I'm often quiet around people I don't know--people often mistake silence for maturity.

When I ask people why they think I'm older, they always say, "You just seem to carry yourself like an older person." Same wording every time. I don't have a weathered face or anything like that, so I have no other explanation for it.

I don't mind that too much. I think it's flattering, because it's nice to be thought of as wise and mature (though I'm actually pretty childish).

It has caused a rift in my past social circles. I hardly ever get along with people my own age, since they usually lack the knowledge and experience that interests me. (Of course, I'm not brilliant and worldly. And not all young people are boring. But the ones I encounter are.) However, I'm too silly and (sometimes) immature to develop real friendships with older people. There are some exceptions, as my diverse circle of close friends attests to. Older people assume that I am mature because of my appearance, but my goofy "teenager" side shows and it mystifies them.

I guess I don't mind the age appearance---it's fun to shock people when they learn I'm much younger than what they thought.


On the subject on age/behavior: In my class there is a girl who is always whining and behaving like the worst of high-schoolers. She always demands attention and sympathy for her struggle in juggling both work and school (which we are *all* doing). She gossips and makes fun of the people who ask questions and act enthusiastic about the lessons. I assumed that she was 18 or so, but she's in her mid-twenties. She thinks I am in my early thirties, though I'm actually three years younger than she is. It's weird to feel older and more mature than someone who's older than me.

--Jez"still waiting for my facial hair to grow in"zika