> > Why men are so... shallow? mean?
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> > What's the correct word for someone that behaves badly and tries do trash away your feelings when he becomes bored with you (and as usual, starts out the "Why don't we remain only friends?", when he wants to say "Get off and stop bothering me")?

Sounds like one of the not-so-good representatives of men. The ones that make the rest of us look bad. Ugh.

> I'm not sure there's any one word that adequately expresses the personality you're describing. Perhaps a heel, a bounder, a boor, or a cad? Those are all words for "a man who acts with deliberate disregard for another's feelings."
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> > Will I ever understand what's wrong with me?
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> > I feel so alone in this dark night.
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> > Sandra
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> *HUG* you, Sandra. It takes time to get to know a person well, and a greater amount of effort to learn to be polite. Some people, the bounders and the cads, have never learned to take the time nor the effort. Do give yourself some breathing space, too. If you need a friendly ear, we're here for you.

Bravo. I couldn't have said it better.

Nyper"Would do a Red Green quote here, but will save it for a more light-hearted post"old