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> > Being an occasional visitor to RinkWorks, I hardly ever read the message forum or post here, but I felt like sharing this.
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> > My great-grandmother, who has raised me since I was six and who I loved very much and lived with here in this apartment the last three years, died last week. I haven't gotten around to changing the phone to put it in my name yet, since the funeral was only Wednesday--and it wouldn't affect the lists telemarketers already own anyway.
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> Not strictly related, but it does involve the phone. My fiance is on the verge of ending with me because she is convinced I am tapping her phone calls, which I am NOT. Naturally I am a little *annoyed* at the moment, especially as I seem to have no way of persuading her otherwise. Anybody know a way to convince her I don't listen in?
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> Bea 'Felt good to share that' sty

Oh, this sounds serious. If she wants to break off an engagement, she must be very upset. There must be some reason to make her think that you're listening to her calls. It also sounds like a communication problem between the two of you. I would suggest that you first try to figure out WHY she doesn't believe you, rather than try to defend yourself. If you defend yourself, that will only make her more mad, and she will think, "If he really didn't do it, then why is he getting so defensive over it?"

Start there, take it one step at a time, and see what happens.

Ell"Means well"myruh