> But I don't want God to have a plan for my life. I want my own will to do what I want, whether that be in the service of God or otherwise.
> I would only accept a God that *asked* me to follow his plan, and left the decision entirely up to me. Furthermore, any God who would punish me for *not* following his plan and instead deciding my own fate wouldn't be much worth to me anyway. If my manager at work "asks" me to do something and then punishes me for not doing it, then he was never really asking in the first place--he was commanding, and I ticked him off by saying no. I find that vindictive and petty--two things I don't want in any God I might choose to worship.
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> -- Dave
To that, I give "AMEN". I completely agree.

B"That just about sums it up for me"o