where that really gets me irritated is that blacks can call other blacks that all day long, AND they can use derogatory words for whites (honkey, etc) (no, it doesn't offend me, I really don't care what you call me, but the doublestandard ticks me off) yet if a white guy says it to a black it's bad. Excuse me, but frankly words do not change meaning based on what color the guy who's saying it is. And anyone who thinks they do change meaning is every bit as racist as he claims others to be.