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> It would help to know what her motivation for all this is. I've got two guesses: one, she thinks Darien is a geek, you're too good for him, and she has a naturally meddling personality that would like to "make things right." Two, almost the opposite: she's jealous.





there are other possibilities here. First is that she believes Min's relationship with Darien will take away from Min's friendship with her - - she's not jealous because she wants Darien, but because she doesn't want Darien to take her friend away.

Another possibility is that Min's roommate is interested in HER. . .




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> Knowing which (or if it's another reason entirely) would certainly help determine what the best way to approach her is, but I think the basic principles are the same, no matter what. Assuming you two were friends, or at least friendly, before, this *should* be something you can resolve via open discussion, assuming she is the least bit rational or compassionate at all.